5 easy steps to figure out what turns you and your partner on

5 easy steps to figure out what turns you and your partner on

Open any self-help book to discover the phrase, “communication is the key.” But do we in fact know how to communicate? Are we shy? Do we say what we mean? Are we a great listener? Do we practice non-violent communication? How do you know if your partner is understanding what you are trying to express?


We can’t hide behind the word, “communication” and expect it to solve everything. We have to know how and when to communicate. More importantly, we have to know what specific things to say and do (and to avoid saying or doing) that will help bring us closer to our partner.


In this episode, you’ll not only gain tips you can apply immediately to communicate better, but also learn how to explore your own body in a way that will allow you to unlock more pleasure. We’ll then look at how to ask your partner the right questions to escalate their excitement.


Are you ready to come closer?


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