Let’s state the obvious: I am a man, helping and teaching women how to get in touch with that very special part of themselves. Tasting that forbidden fruit may not be for everyone but if you want to get this part of your life handled, I’m your guy. I help you get to know yourself, get out of your head and out of your way to help you get what you want and need sexually. At first you might be unsure or skeptical. I get it. I encourage you to read through some of the countless reviews on Google, Yelp, the Closeness website, Facebook, Audible and Apple Podcasts.
It’s not easy to share our intimate stories like this publicly, so the fact that these women have, speaks volumes.
Indecisiveness is often a part of female nature. So is not knowing yourself. So is not knowing what you want. Many women want and expect a man to know these things for them or figure it out. He should know what to do, how to touch, lead, uncover what excites her. It’s amazing what calm masculine presence, assertiveness and confidence can do to help you get in touch with yourself.
Women generally cannot and do not want to teach their partner how to have sex with them, seduce them or give them the emotional piece that’s missing from so many relationships today. That’s where I come in.
It’s difficult if not impossible for women to communicate to their partner how to become a better or more dominant and sensual lover. Yet, women crave romance, passion, hot and intense experiences, enormous amounts of attention, healthy dominance and a healthy dose of masculinity.
If you relate, or if you’re unsure of what to do next in the intimacy department for yourself, we can do some fantastic work together. I am equipped to handle all traditional and non-traditional relationships as well as all level of desire and intensity with regard to sensual or sexual interactions.
It’s always surprising to me that in almost every couple’s session, it’s the women who want more. More from their partner, more play, intensity, arousal, excitement. It’s the women who are ready to go further, have more done to them and can handle more. It’s beautiful to see but definitely demystifies the stereotype that men are more sexual.
It’s true that sometimes you may be dealing with an emotional block, or feel a bit stuck in your head, but I have found that it is almost always something the male or masculine partner is or is not doing that allows or prevents intimacy.
From me to you, even though you’re coming to see the ‘sex coach,’ please know that there is so much more to life than sex. Your sessions don’t need to focus on sex or intimacy at all. I’m an extremely capable life coach. You can come in to process, work through things, express your desires, or simply get some things off your chest. You have to feel safe, comfortable AND excited to be ready for sex. I specialize in helping you get there.
Finally, sometimes women carry wounding or pain that makes sexual play or opening up feel difficult. You want and crave intimacy, but your body shuts down or you get stuck in your head. I can help you learn how to be with your body in a soothing way that gets your needs met and doesn’t feel compromising. We work through these issues gently and it gets results. It’s even possible to do it in a fun and charming way that makes you smile and dare I say even gets you aroused, without getting triggered!
As with all sessions, sitting across from me in the office and simply talking is always, always an appropriate option. Why people come see however and seek me out is for a more dynamic and experimental experience.