Let’s talk about the elephant in the room: I am a man, helping and teaching women how to get in touch with that special part of themselves. I help you get to know yourself, get out of the way of yourself and get what you need sexually. At first you might be unsure or skeptical. I get it. I encourage you to read through some of the countless reviews on Google, Yelp, this website, Facebook, Audible and Apple Podcasts that other women have shared. It’s not easy to share our intimate stories like this publicly, so the fact that these women have, speaks volumes.
Indecisiveness is often a part of female nature. So is not knowing yourself. So is not knowing what you want. Many women want and expect a man to just know these things for them or figure it out. Know what to do, know how to lead, know what excites her. It’s amazing what calm masculine presence, some leadership, and presence can do to help you get in touch with yourself.
Women generally can’t and don’t want to teach their partner how to have sex with them or give them the emotional piece that’s missing from so many relationships today. That’s where I come in.
It’s difficult if not impossible for women to communicate to their partner how to become a better or more dominant and sensual lover. Yet, women crave romance, passion, hot and intense experiences, healthy dominance and a deep dose of masculinity.
If you relate, , or if you’re unsure of what to do next in the intimacy department for yourself or both of you, we can do some fantastic work together. I am well equipped to handle all traditional and non-traditional relationships as well as all level of desires with regard to sexual interactions.
It’s interesting to me that in almost every session, it’s always the women who want more than their partner is ready for. It’s the women who are more comfortable with more, are ready to do more, want more done to them and can handle more in Closeness sessions!
Yes, sometimes you may be dealing with an emotional block, or feel a bit stuck in your head, but I have found that it is the male partner, and how he holds his energy that allows or prevents intimacy.
From my heart to yours, even though it’s my specialty, please know that sessions don’t need to be all about sex! You can come in to process, work through things, get general coaching, express your desires, or simply get some things off your chest. You have to feel safe, comfortable AND excited to be ready for sex. I specialize in helping you get there.
Finally, sometimes women carry wounding or pain that makes sexual play or opening up feel difficult. You want to get closer and want to open up to your partner but your body shuts down or you get stuck in your head. I can help you or both of you learn how to be with your body in a soothing way that gets your needs met and doesn’t feel compromising. It is possible to work through these issues gently and it gets results. It’s even possible to do it in a fun and charming way that makes you smile and dare I say even gets you aroused, without getting triggered!