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Think of a Closeness session as getting the sexual education you wish you had growing up, but is now tailored to your specific needs as an adult. It’s a way to develop skills you were never taught in and out of the bedroom to make your relationship feel more alive and passionate. Almost anything that has ever been confusing or uncertain for you, can be addressed in a safe, respectful and friendly manner in the office or via phone.
As the top rated sex coach in San Diego, I specialize in reimagining your relationship and sex life, getting you out of the rut you’ve been stuck in, helping you process or understand what you want, and teaching you how to to ignight passionate chemistry and desire. I also empower men, with their female partners present, to be assertive and sexually confident partners.
For women, I guide the exploration of pleasure, understanding yourself better, figuring out what you want, learning what is true for you or in your relationship, and getting in touch with your most intimate desires.
If your relationship is craving Closeness, or needs a sexual tune-up, you have come to the right place.
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For around fifty percent of couples who contact me, the female parter will reach out first and sign up for a session on her own. This is optional and does not come as a push or request from me.
Whether you’re involved, single or just getting in or out of a relationship, you can benefit greatly from an intimacy coaching session. As such, I handle all aspects of the intimate experience, not just sex. To learn more about what you can expect from doing a sesion together click here. I also invite you to read through several touching reviews from women under the reviews section to see if you resonate with what I offer.
When a woman decides to come on on her own it can be for many reasons: Maybe she doesn’t know how to bring something up with her partner that has b been bothering her. Perhaps she needs space to voice things and figure them out. Maybe she wants to get to know herself or or body better because she struggles with orgasm, hasn’t had one or has not had multiple. Some women have spent years not getting what they want and are finally ready for a breakthrough. Other times they haven’t been able to speak up to their partner and want to be heard.
All questions about sex, understanding your body, as well as what turns you on and excites you can be addressed. It’s a powerful way to get out of your head, sort through what’s going on, and have the conversations you can’t talk about anywhere else.
Often women come to see me to figure out what they want sexually because they don’t want to ‘teach’ their partner how to do it. This feels unnatural or makes them see their partner differently. So we can figure out what excites you in session and then teach your husband or partner how to give it to you, just the way you like it. We can soften anxiety, help figure out how to get you more aroused, work on confidence and tap in to what you want.
If you’re in relationship, coming to session together is the most powerful way to create lasting change. Often women want to send their man in to be fixed, but when the female partner is present in the room, she can actually see the changes and learn what turns her on and off in real time. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve sat with a man, alone in the room offering hours of valuable insight, only for him to walk way thinking, “ok I need to try harder.” (Whatever that means) When you’re in the room as a couple, that is really where the magic happens.
Then, with both your consent, partners can learn to turn their female partner on and get her aroused, but actually understand how and why it happened. I will immediately and gracefully point out her subtle body language and cues, things to do next etc, so you can witness sexual desire in your partners eyes and see it in her body.
Most couples who come in are able to find success. Some want back to back sessions, others want 3-5 for a quick fix, and other still like to do several up front and then a refresher every month. Results come from your ability and willingness to do the exercises, take it seriously (men!), do the fun interactions at home and come prepared each week with things you want to work on or address.
Don’t wait till the night before our next session to have a conversation or get things started!
Often one person has a much higher sex drive than their partner. That is often the female partner. If a man is ‘working on it’ but only tries once or twice a week and is meek in his energy and attempts, this will often appear to his female partner like he doesn’t care or isn’t trying. Repetition is the mother of skill, so you’ll want to keep coming back for more until you get it dialed in.
Repetitive sessions allow us to dial everything in and continue to refine so you can be more effective, and seductive, at home.
Real sexual guidance to help you and your partner get to a more connected and erotic place.
As an expert sex educator and intimacy coach, I understand that your unique situation requires care and confidentiality. While better or hotter sex doesn’t have to be our top priority, you can learn to share more closeness or have more connected or primal sex almost immediately if desired.
With your full consent, I offer safe, real world guidance, demonstrations and support to help your partner initiate and be more successful through all stages of intimacy.
Reclaim your sexual power, find your voice and discover a Closeness with your partner that you never dreamed possible.
If you have experienced traditional forms of sex therapy, psychotherapy or marriage and family counseling in San Diego, you may have been left feeling a little frustrated in the intimacy department. As it turns out, many qualified therapists and sex therapists aren’t fully comfortable or knowledgable when it comes to the very sexual details that sexual guidance requires.
I constantly receive feedback that an MFT’s advice was rather general, bland. They often say they were unable get the spark back because the generic advice simply misses the mark.
At Closeness, we can get right to the heart of matters that are effecting your most, no matter how personal they may feel. My warm, confident approach is stress-free and takes place in a stunning and relaxing forest like setting.
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