Hello, my name is Tari

and I am your  Closeness Coach


San Diego's #1 Rated Sex and Relationship Coach

The right blend of professional and classy but with some heat

When you're sharing the most intimate details of your life with someone, you don't solely want them to hold a safe space. Once you actually feel safe, you want a solution to that one area that has you stuck! Ideally you'd want the answer to make a big impact on your relationship or your own body. You want to be in the hands of someone who can read you, who is sensitive to your boundaries but also knows how to turn up the volume or intensity the way you've been craving. You want someone respectful, competent, and also a little sexy, if we're honest. I've spent a lifetime becoming that person to do my life's work.

It's not just about sex and intimacy

If you've read through the coaching section of this website, you know there's a lot to take in. Additionally though, I am also a sexual translator who can put into words what your partner often cannot. To really get to know someone means that sometimes we need to heal old wounds, work through resentment or old traumas, re-build trust, and work on communication. If you're not in a sexual place right now and not feeling ready to explore sexually, we start at your comfort level and meet you where you are. We care for your entire relationship's needs as a whole, not just massive orgasmic pleasure! You may additionally consult with me for: hot date ideas, interior design, speaking different languages, worldwide living and travel, and even acrobatics.

If you don't know where to start, start with me.

Most Closeness Clients report that after 1-6 visits, their sex, intimate or love life dramatically changes for the better! If you like what I've got to say and are open to my unique style of coaching, you will be shocked by what can be unlocked and accomplished within a few hours time.

Closeness - Sex, Intimacy and Relationship Coaching, Consulting and Guidance


4455 Murphy Canyon Road, San Diego California 92123

‭(805) 427-3162

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Closeness coaching IS:

Actual sexual guidance to help you and your partner get to a better and more erotic place.  Full support through navigating different sex drives, how he approaches you, eliminating bad behavior and discovering different ways of getting aroused. Learn to successfully navigate betrayal, breakups and misunderstandings. Most importantly, learn to have better sex immediately.  

In office, in home and virtual sessions available. In home sessions require an office visit first or a video chat to get acquainted. 

With both of your consent, we can also offer safe, real world demonstrations, guidance and support to teach your partner how to initiate, advance and turn you on through all the stages of arousal.  We help you immediately step back into your sexual power, and articulate what you want, verbally and non verbally, from the very first session.


Why I'm Different

If you have experienced traditional forms of therapy in San Diego, sex therapy, psychotherapy or marriage and family counseling before, you may have felt a little frustrated in the sexual department.   As it turns out, many qualified sex therapists and sex coaches aren’t fully comfortable diving into the nitty gritty details of your sex life.  Often I receive feedback that an MFT’s advice was rather general, generic or bland.  At Closeness, we can get right to the heart of the intimate subjects that are bothering your most, no matter how personal they are, and begin to them immediately with world class guidance. It’s safe, stress free and all takes place in a beautiful and relaxing environment in San Diego

If letters after names and titles such as: couple’s therapist, sex therapist or individual therapist, marriage counselor, relationship counselor or MFT are important to you, then you may wish to explore elsewhere.  But if you value someone who get’s consistent results and is an expert in the field of intimacy, I am your man.

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