Please listen to this episode with your partner. Sexually inexperienced men do not get a lot of attention. Because this subject is so sensitive, there isn’t much real world instruction around it either. In fact most men grapple with a great deal of shame and guilt around the subject and often will not reach out for help. This episode is for you.
0:00 Introduction Cause and Effect
6:34 You’re not alone
9:11 Sex does NOT suddenly become a skill once you’re married
12:47 Women do not want to teach you how to have sex with them
17:03 Inexperienced men often find themselves with sexually experienced women
18:25 Inexperienced men often have women initiate in the beginning
21:12 Women get angry, frustrated and resentful when they have to do all the work or nothing happens
23:41 Brief recap
25:32 What can women do to help their men in this situation
28:42 More things women can do to support an inexperienced lover
30:47 Third thing she can do
33:39 Inexperienced men often take on the female role
36:35 Are women more sexual than men?
39:45 Conclusion and outro